they say that if a tree falls in the forest with nobody around to hear it then does it really make a sound
the tree's pain went unnoticed due to the lack of hearing ears the pain was still there even though no one could hear it
just because the tree fell and no one heard the fall doesn't mean it didn't happen it doesn't erase the pain
the tree uprighted itself and grew back taller than before it did it by itself because no one listened for the pain so no one could help it overcome it except itself