because she’s still wearing her diamond earrings and they still bloom reflections in flour-coated sunsets in pre-dawned hospital windows at dusk and beyond they don’t come off obtrusive and quiet and every spark bright where her eyes haven’t been lately she’s not all there so i should be holding on tightly
because her hands are battlefields her eyes are blizzards and she ate half a scoop of strawberry ice cream just last week it was just the other day she said my name
because i can see every jolt her heart now beats tsunamis that slam her ribcage and there’s no higher ground
because she still sits up in bed head in palms and asks what day it is like the churches aren’t shut like her hallways aren’t gathering dust
because when she sleeps she dreams of a lovely ghost with a shovel and pre-technicolor dirt on his cheeks and he wants to be with her again
because when she wakes she wonders before she remembers she forgot
because we remember we sit in the living room we flood our eyes with laughter and dead lambs and fish and loaves of bread and wooden spoons and chicken cordon bleu and i want her to hear and taste and see and smile again against homemade wine the singing in summer the accordions i never got to hear
because she still asks me what i ate for dinner(though it’s only lunchtime) and until she can no longer speak--
--written 3/30/20--
because my grandmother is the sternest eagle-eyed badass stubborn old lady i ever knew and will ever know and she hates not being able to move her legs and walk or move her mouth and talk and yell at me and i know her voice is in there somewhere below the staggering breaths and mumbles but i can hear her as faintly as she can hear me