I wish I could tell your that to be yourself is enough but I can't because I know assumptions will be made based solely on your shade,your gender,age,or what you believe but I want you to know you are enough for me that someone loves you even though you may not see but you need to be enough for you cause if one thing I know is true is you will never be happy if all you do is for another yes you should be there for each other but you should also live for you but that is just some friendly advice in the end you are accountable for what you do