Even if you are an enemy who's bound to hurt me, I would still ask you to come sit and eat with me. Even if you are an enemy who's sent to capture me, I would still ask you to stay for a while, share even this one meal with me. Even if you are an enemy who's ordered to **** me, I would still ask you; "Have you eaten? Kumain ka na ba? Ya comiste? Ja has menjat?" And if you say you haven't, I'll take out the plates, but I'll be angered. Because look at the time! And if you say you already did, then I'd let you take me out, my head lowered. You can waste my time! Even if you are an enemy who's bound to hurt me...
In Tagalog, we don't say "I love you". We ask; "kumain ka na ba?"