Why do people revisit their old wounds ? Is it an addiction to pain ? Or unwillingness to let go of misery ? It is the same reason a bird revisits its broken nest; To see if it can fix its broken walls or remove the thorns from its floor board . Perhaps to try something different from last time hoping this time round it will work. This is the law of life ; learning to leave with pain. Sometimes when the skeleton gets out of the closet you can't take it back. The only way to understand pain is to look deep into it without turning back ,to stare Into the dark abyss until you see the light. Because healing always begins with embracing pain not running away from it.