Weeds grow in poor soil, among rocks, unattended with no help from anyone. It takes Herculean efforts to hurt or destroy them.
Garden plants and flowers require human unselfish tender intervention to grow and bloom. Miss a day or two of care and water, they may shrivel or even cease to exist.
Maybe we humans should grow and live more like weeds, tough and less overly sensitive like needy fragile ***** flowers.
Expectations and dependence on other people for our needs and happiness a trap best avoided.