Apologies and understanding not enough this time Health issues would be the only accepting factor here One can not control Mother Nature or illness You know the old saying about plans Two years of no visit now is three because of this What if a Herculean effort was made and change is only one side of the story Somebody very special throws a hiccup or monkey wrench that is no longer acceptable? A friendship that has weathered decades The best and worst of life celebrated and dealt with Maybe not meant to be any longer? There is no band aid for this Not meant to be? We will see this is so much more than disappointing