Healing takes time. It's a process, stages.
   My deepest condolences to your family.
   You're too young! You're too old!
   I was your age once. I understand.
   It always turns out okay in the end.
   It was meant to be. Make the best of it.
   He was no good for you from the start.
   I always knew you just settled with him.
   You're divorcing? You have two children!
   You met someone? Your *****'s not welcome!