The past does not exist, There are only lessons. The future does not exist, There are only plans. All that ever is, is the present; Contextual demands. Explore the conditional, Be granted choice in return. But accept that "anxiety is the dizziness of freedom" as/is your burden.
To put the tenses in perspective, Relax, (be perceptive) and keep an adaptable mind at hand.
Quote: -Line Ten as put forward in The Concept of Anxiety: A Simple Psychologically Orienting Deliberation on the Dogmatic Issue of Hereditary Sin (1844) by SΓΈren Kierkegaard