I pick fights with people, because as Albert Camus said, "to feel absolutely right is the beginning of the end" and I'd rather have you angry for awhile than have you gone for the rest of my life.
No one told me though, that constant fighting only ends in pushing everyone away.
But without the crashing waves or turbulent winds, we wouldn't be the ocean we are - breaking boundaries and pushing limits and finally finding where we belong and who we are.