Time does not heal, only God heals old wounds. When you love someone but will always be alone. Those old wounds shall never fully be healed within. might You might be able to deal with the wounds much better. But it still is not and will not be healed until God heals it. We live in a world that refuse to accept that Jesus is real. So people make these false assumptions it is better to them. That they make up false assumptions and take credit from God. Believe me there is an God and only he can bring true healing .