Feel it. Don't barely say those words, hymn to the rhythm of the solemn touch - for you may not have tomorrow but you have today. Feel the fingers, hold his hand. Hold and don't let go. Absorb every little detail that the light touches upon. Right from that mole on the back of his neck to the way he tilts his head sideways ; to hear you utter the least - to take it all in. I wouldn't know, I didn't notice.