Someone once said to me that I might be not charming for the first time, but you'll get it by the time. He--my ex--also said that it would be hard for someone to get over me once that people 'got it'.
But, you know what? The thing that has been happening is, once someone got it, it would be the time when we were too close to be something else and that person would be terrified to take any more steps.
I've been someone who's way too 'precious' to those people but would get abandoned too, anytime.
Fuxx the logic about 'we wouldn't be the same anymore if we took any more steps'. Because we took it or not, people changes.
And we would likely to regret something that we haven't done it rather than what we've done. So, don't think too much because losing will be happening.