Face your fears with me, and we will conquer them together. No more running, no more shying away from that which is unpleasant. You are courageous and virtuous, and the sum of all your mistakes will never be the sum of all you are. Gaze at what is harsh and real with me, let me be your eyes, let me catch you if you stumble - we will both fall inevitably. Let truth only fall from our lips, and we will always be whole, we will always find a way.
Repairing foundations, taking the time to understand the why and the how from both parties, and seeking to make it better.