Why do we mostly see through the lenses of benefits?
By that I meant actions driven by...

What do I have to gain from this relationship
What does the job has to offer me
What's the reward if I do this or that
What do I derive from this or that

I like to call it... The take, take, take
Collect, collect, collect mentality

How about embracing...
The give give give
Bless bless bless mindset

Afterall, it is said that...
It is more blessed to give than to receive!