A few hold a wall in front of them. Pretending to be someone they are not. Trying to impress the world. Trying to impress themselves. We sometimes try too hard to impress that we forget what we are doing. True friends "may" see through farcades, true friends "will" love you for who you are.... without the pretending. We stick ourselves in this teenage mindset, thinking that we have to be perfect, flaws are a bad thing. Life has ended before it could begin.
We need to understand that facades, is not open, and dethrones our true nature. For one to love us we need to love yourselves first. ;)