Let go of those tough times one has out grown no longer holding on to those heartaches the struggle the burden is not worth it you can relive the moment in your mind but as time progress they fade and growing is the process that makes you better. Lost love will be found with true love all the hurt will make you stronger and better for the next. Sometimes too focused on what's going on behind you but not going that way anymore.
Sometimes you meet wonderful people afraid to replace the old but those people don't keep contact or want you. Living for yourself for once not saving room for people that don't want you around. It's hard to make a connection when you have trust issues dealing with fake toxic people that use you take you for granted, don't let them dull your shine.
Moving is hard holding back leads to regret no longer in that vice grips.