Let's get something straight! ... You are never going to have all of the answers! Life is always going to keep you feeling uncertain about one thing or another! Just when you think you've worked it all out, something else is going to ***** you up, mentally! Stop! ... Stop trying to figure it all out at once! It isn't all going to fall into place--like so many people will have you believe! Let's be honest with ourselves! Accept what you cannot control! Accept that nothing stays the same! Accept that life is ever evolving! Accept that even you, yourself, will change, without notice, without realising!
We are only human, we don't use our brains to their full capacity--we don't know how to! We can't control the amount we use, simply because we want to! Intention, and putting your mind to it, isn't enough. And even if we could, that wouldn't change anything, because we cannot control others, or the universe!
It isn't your fault! We all make mistakes - how smart you are, has nothing to do with it!