Children are weapons in adults foolish games. The pain and suffering a parent inflicts by playing wicked games. It should not matter when we can't love each other as we thought we did at one point in our life together. The children we have together deserve to be loved by as many people that can love them, not either side should ever spew hate to tarnish the love of the innocent ones. Who as a human has any right to judge the other. Only God can do that. Adults need to grow up and allow the children to love be loved and live life happy with either side. When you take away the love of a parent, contaminate with hate, realize that life is short and one day it will be to late. Set aside the foolish differences it doesn't matter who you don't like. Accept that your love for each other was truly a mistake. Both have moved on now. New love in your lives. It is time to stop inflicting pain and let the children decide. You no longer have anything to gain, you should realize this by now. Your hate has already caused irreversible harm that your blind to see for yourself. Your smirk is sickening as are your lies you have spanned this entire time. Wake up and stop hiding the children for one last time.