Dora! People with big noses are beautiful! Anyway, Dora of the Noble Nose as a single rose as a solitary diamond so brilliantly in love with Gilbert! Married and years later...
She kept the paper folded in her jewelry drawer... the paper from the hospital that said... she was pregnant! With you! in her jewelry drawer! Joan, My friend It was you she kept as folded treasure till her death at 82
I read your Kaddish, Dora I watch the shovels fly as stones collect like children of the prayers upon your grave
Thank God, Joanie! You have no heir
At grief’s end there’s no one left... to die of love’s enfolding leaving everything to... Joanie Treasure! Joanie Only!
To my friend, her mother, and father
My friend, Joanie passed, and her ashes got sent to me in a cheap plastic container from a budget "Undertaker for the Indigent.” All she wanted was to be buried by her parents, but there was no plot and no money left. Anyway, Jewish cemeteries don't allow for the remains of cremation...so I loaded my old mother in the car just before a thunder storm and desecrated the graveyard anyway, leaving stones on her parents marker (Yup, we were here). My mother blessed herself with her rosaries, and I mumbled through the Kaddish in unofficial Hebrew as a thrush sang and thunder remembered her family.
The Internet solves so many problems, and with a little effort, you can find a family anywhere. :)