I was told that if I was the kind of woman, men liked to look at, I could let them look at me. And I was told that if I was the kind of woman, men liked to touch, I could let them touch me . I was promised that if I can clean up after messes that wereΒ Β not my own, learn to cook, and mother a man's inner child, I could become the woman men liked to provide for. Men appreciate the women that know when to speak ,guess that's why I don't even know what I'm saying half the time Men need a woman who can guarantee silence while he grumbles about his day I didn't know I was to marry a broken record The look I get from my grandmother when I tell her that marriage is not exactly in my life's itinerary, Is the exact same look 14 year old Alyssa got when she came home with a pierced septum Us girls are brought up to believe that a happy life is made up of 3 components ... Husband Kids and a part time job There is a reason Slave is not a synonym for wife And woman does not equal *wife