"Many folk do not marry for all kinds of reason, but can, and do, live a fulfilled life. Of course when speaking of the solitary life in relation to spirituality, the solitary is quite happy with their solitude, but if they are wise they will admit to being open to falling in love and consequently leave their solitude to fulfil that calling if needs be. Although one has to admit to leave the supreme advantage of the hermetical life it would indeed have to be an all consuming love in order to leave solitude behind."