my successes came when I said please and thank you tipped my hat looked her straight in the eyes without blinking and said you are so interesting care to get a cup of coffee sometime just simply sincere and she would smile most of the times then say sure would coffee would often lead to a beer later a goodnight kiss a late embrace another date not innocent at all ever we stood our ground just a little Gentlemanliness still in this day and age can make a man wealthy healthy and smile