Love is like drinking champagne in a Paris café, you don't order it but you get it anyway so then you sip it and it is good and yes, you like it.
So you taste it and it sparkles and from the outside it looks so good, so you drink some more and you begin to feel it and feeling dizzy you drink some more.
Soon all is a mad swirl and everything looks so different and you are happy-- you laugh and then you get a little sick and you feel a pain and you cry and your head aches.
You are sorry that you drank the stuff and you swear that you will never touch it again but after awhile you become used to it and hardened to it.
You find that you like it and drink and drink until finally you can go through with it without a mar and you are called a toper. Jon York 2017