The inclination to rescue doesn't spring from an altruistic desire to feel good about myself. It is a damnable urge costing me three bad marriages. I became the 'bad guy' when I stopped a couple I worked with from beating his wife in public. Stupid me, offered the woman help. My thanks was her venom for years... Rescue equates to put your **** out to be chewed. Yet - I still have the burning desire to pay it forward Aware reward is a jaded heart- and the inescapable knowledge I would do it all again.