at her bequest I changed my hair and interests
she liked me how I was when we first met
and not so much my differences....
I changed, I guess, as we got more comfortable
grew my hair long again and quit shaving
watched less baseball and football
and watched more movies with heroines
and love stories, forgot my best friends phone numbers
and tried to remember anniversaries and Valentine's day
and Mother's day and birthdays
and lounged more on the couch
ate popcorn with my sweaty feet  on display
belched and farted as I pleased, it is as they said
that truly, one can get
too comfortable, and too malleable,
I am gonna watch more sports,
I am getting too estrogen
infused.