I have depression. Some days are really hard, and other days are a bit easier for me to control how I am feeling. This does not mean than I will make everything sad in my life all the time and I will be a buzzkill in a friend group. This does not mean than I think about hurting myself every moment of the day.
I have anxiety. Some situations are harder for me to be in and it takes extra effort for me to motivate myself not to be scared of irrational things sometimes. This does not mean that I never leave my home. This does not mean that I have no friends because I am afraid of what people think.
I have ocd. Mine is a form where I like things a certain way and attach feelings to things that do not matter sometimes. This does not mean that I am a "neat freak". This does not mean that I am a "hoarder".
I am going to counseling for these. I enjoy talking to a professional that will be confidential about my problems. This does not mean that I am not strong because I seeked out help. It does not mean that I am a psychotic maniac.
I don't like taking medication for my symptoms. I personally don't remember to take them all the time and I am in a place where I can control my feelings and thoughts moderately each day. This does not mean that other people who take medication are worse or better than me. This does not mean that I am not really trying to get better.
Every situation is tailored to an individual, and Everyone is fighting their own battles how they feel they can.