It’s more than having dry bones while it rains every night or being a head taller than the one who fancies his girl it's not just his girl clapping her hands while they danced or sending her flowers knowing she would welcome them it’s not just being forgiven by God for what was woven by his own shame or being given a meal not knowing when the next will arrive it’s more than throwing a rock into a fountain for luck or praying on Saturdays for the things that life sometimes forgets it’s being able to say good morning and mean it or feeling the smile of a stranger warm a winter’s day but most of all it's being able to help someone else or make them feel special like you made me feel today