During your good times,everyone sticks around you like a bee sticks to honey...it is during those trying times in your life that you find out who your real friends and well wishers are. My humble advice-don't wait for the bad times of your life to identify your real friends...Try and do it early..It's not easy..but try to do this..'coz then during the rough times,when you really need help,you will ask the right person for help and avoid dejection.