I am not sure about others but I know that I can not change on my own. God has became to me the God that saves those whom can not change themselves. So I cry out to him and then I lay down the mess that I know that I am. For him to decide which piece of the puzzle to change first of all here. For he is transforming this mess that I have became here on the earth. Into the masterpiece , revealing to those whom can not change too. To trust in him and see just exactly how beautiful their life shall become. Because he loves working with the ones, that knows that it is him. Doing this work , and none of them thus then he gets all of the Glory.