I notice these things, the way that she smiles as she sings the ***** of her ******* it's best when she notices me noticing her, I am not one to stare, but I do I can see through walls or so she says, but it pays to be attentive and I give her attention not that this gives me kudos she was adamant about this. I am the boss she allows me to be, but we all now the truth and who wears the trousers in this family.