You want to know why I flinch? You want to know why I scream? Because at home I'm flinching away from someone grabbing my hair. Because at home I'm screaming when I'm getting hurt or about to be.
I don't expect you to understand how much it hurts having you hair pulled so many times. I don't expect you to understand how much it hurts to be hurt so many times.
Because your life hopefully doesn't involve the need to flinch. Because your life hopefully doesn't involve the need to scream unless it's gleeful. Now you know why I flinch. Now you know why I scream.