Because you did not live it, I fear to explain it..
Because you did not feel it... I fear you will not understand.
Because it did not happen to you, I fear you will reject it....
I put it out of my mind in hopes that it will go away. In hopes that I will never be reminded of it or may just think it was a nightmare and never truly happened.
You seem to be understanding, but naive to those things.....
How do you share pain with someone who has not experienced the same trauma...  Because you cannot relate or you feel your pain outweighs theirs..