Have you wanted to have something, that you knew you could not have. Have you ever realize that the second most important thing is wrong. While the most important thing is the relationship with God. While he is telling you that you need to stay single here focus. Focus on what before you the relationship with him my God. Because if you do get married then part of your focus will be on her. Probably even causing problems with your purpose here and now. So just focusing on him and trusting that he shall help you too. I choose my Savior over everything , for his will in my life be reality. For none other can give me what he gives me true Salvation.