Though the pain, rise up a heart for those that hurt and suffer.
Though the pain , strength from Christ rises up within your heart
For having pain or suffering does not always make it a bad thing.
Sometimes it become the vessel that Christ uses for your ministry.
Sometimes it defines your heart for others in the same situation.
So do not judge those that have walk through the fire of sorrow.
For because they have been there themselves at one time here.
They relate and Christ can use them to encourage those whom are still there.
To help inspire them to walk through the fire  to the other side to Christ who is waiting.