You say to yourself "I want happiness" so you remove the I which is ego then remove the want which is desire and all you are left with is happiness and if you want to be happy, be.
You will often find that happiness sneaks in a door that you did not think was open.
The gift is yours in this amazing journey called life and you alone are responsible for the quality of it so focus on what is important and capture and remember the good times as you move forward from the negatives and if things don't work out the first time simply try again and happiness can be yours. Jon York 2015