" Our marriage lasted 39 years, we had our ups and downs shedding many tears. At times she was SILK, and other times SANDPAPER. I was neither. She keep us together. Her softness calmed the mustang in me. Her rough side placed me where i was supposed to be. A soft cloth, and a scratchy piece of paper lived with-in her flesh. These two items made me a better man. They brought out the best. She rests in peace now, as i follow her ways. Her being my "SILK & SANDPAPER" has left me with wonderful, and brighter days."