for the girls that will never know the difference between affection and aggression for the kids forced to bring broken arms and black eyes to show and tell each bruise a reminder never to make him mad again he told you he was nothing like your father so you let him leave you bruises to know what it felt like when he was gone, tell me what it feels like when he's gone. they will tell you boys will be boys, but that is no excuse for telling you that you asked for it i love you, i beat you, I'm sorry, there is no excuse, don't ever accept that boys will be boys. darling, aggression and affection are not synonyms they exist in opposite universes and i will scream until my voice in nonexistent for my eight year old cousin to understand when he hits you on the playground it does not mean he likes you never make the mistake of thinking he loves you when he leaves you scars when you see the flames burning in his eyes and fear starts in yours don't you ever confuse it with love women will continue to believe they asked for it will continue to believe they wanted it until we convince them your clothes do not say **** me your alcohol content does not say **** me only you have to power to say yes or no only you have the power to tell yourself the only cause of **** is rapists