"You hurt. You recover. You move on".
"You suffer. You learn. You change".
Odds are pretty good, you're just going to get hurt again. But each time, you learn something. Each time it's going to be different. Each time, you come out of it a little stronger, and at some point you realize that there are more flavors of pain than coffee.
Pain does two things: It teaches you, tells you that you're alive. Then it passes away and leaves you changed. It leaves you wiser, sometimes. Sometimes it leaves you stronger. Either way, pain leaves its mark, and everything important that will ever happen to you in life is going to involve It in one degree or another."