Realize this.
Take it as wise advice to protect yourself.
You're responsible for you and honestly no one else.
When you grow.

Realize, a man will volunteer to love you.
While your man at war.
You're not his.
You just a temporary award.

A man will love you.
When your spouse is providing.
What time you think he's not giving?
There's always another man willing.
Realize, you're not his.
The lover just see himself as a fill in.
He be gone when the problems comes.

A man will be the pawn in trading your worth.
We see manipulation more in saints than many sinners.
Who never picture themselves as winners?

But, as someone seeking to conquer over your true life lovers.
That's why you see many knowing you're taken requesting for your number?

A man will use you.
That's all many live for.

You hardly hear about, the good man.
You always hearing about those bad men.
Those non paying dads.
Those abusive husbands and lovers and criminals.

So, let's change that.
The good man.
He takes the kids off his lady's hands.
When she needs a level of peace.

Take them to school in the early morning.
When she needs some sleep.
Go the distance to work.
To requires things to keep them both happy.

The good man attends church.
Without her asking him too.
Except, we barely hear about the good man.
Who's faithful to one lovable woman?

The good man has time for her.
Not just the physical stuff.
But for the emotional stuff too.
He loves to talk.
To communicate to the point that sometimes, she wishes he shut up.
Yes, she truly do.
But then she understand this is when he truly happy.

The good man.
The one that cure her back to health.
Who make her feel rich?
Even if they barely have that wealth.

Who's quick to say money isn't everything?
But wouldn't turn it down.
If blessings should come his way.

Who would give it to his spouse?
Even donate it, if it creates marital pain.
The good man lives to love.

Love his family.
Love his friends.
Love the scriptures that guides him.

Who has others admiring him?
His parents.
His bosses.
His lady.
His kids.
Maybe nephews, nieces, cousins too.

There's not nothing he won't do.
If simply requested of him too.

Yes, the good man.
One you might see get mention slightly upon the news.

He doesn't look for recognition.
Could careless, if he doesn't get mention.

A man earns respect by seen as a good role model.

What we might want to be accepted?
Is only accepted by us.
Because the road of love leads some to various trouble.

What we feel isn't worthy?
Might be more worthy to others.
Love can't tell the heart, who to love?

We know of cheaters that refuses to be torn apart
When at the time they are destroying another.
Someone, who hadn't done anything wrong.
Love can't tell the heart, who to love?

Many of us , can see trouble brewing before it happen.
But wise advice is often rejected.
And if , we have been in their shoes.
And trying to advise them.
We most likely have that story used against us.
We can't tell the heart, who to love?

The mind and the heart isn't ever on the same page on certain things.
We all know of a few that will face hurtful pain.

Lesson learned comes from  mistakes.
Isn't that how love usually work.