"The most important career decision of a woman
is choosing her man",
they uttered it to my face too many times,
heard it thru movies and series,
if I could judge, it's their favorite line.
"Choose your husband wisely,
or you only have yourself to blame"
every line makes me think, how will I know?
How will I know if they're true or just wearing a mask?
How will I know if it's me they would want to last?
How will I know If I chose the right man?
How will I know if he's a good one?
Then my mama said,
"We'll never figure all of that,
but baby, follow your instinct instead of your heart."
This is when my mama told me to always choose the man that loves you more than you love him. Choose the man who will obviously shows off how he loves you. Don't just follow your heart, 'coz your heart don't think. Follow your instincts, 'coz it will know who can love you more than himself.