There is a very large difference Between critiquing something And bullying someone Critiquing helps a poet grow KINDLY suggests new ideas The poet could consider But in reality Someone's critiquing Is not necessarily "the right way" Because NO poet Is superior To others So any critiquing Is allowed to be accepted Or ignored That is up to the poet Who is being critiqued And they are perfectly within their right To ignore the critiquing Or to listen to it And anyone Is within their right To RESPECTFULLY Critique another's work (Unless they specifically ask them not to of course, some just write for themselves and to express emotions, not to grow as a poet and that is perfectly okay.) BULLYING Is critiquing another IN AN UNKIND FASHION in a self-important, cruel, egotistical, pathetically self-righteous fashion Critiquing SHOULD NEVER hurt another's feelings Or harm their emotions There is no such thing as "too sensitive" You are not allowed to judge anyone else For their level of sensitivity That is not for you to analyze And that just makes you A horrible pathetic MEAN person If you have hurt them It is YOUR FAULT even if you didn't mean to and honestly, I have been at fault before for that too but it is then YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to fix it to try to apologize to explain what you meant in a kinder way and recognize your opinion which you are entitled to but your opinion is not the only one and it is not necessarily RIGHT.
I have read some comments that are horrible and pathetic and just plain CRUEL