When things don't go your way and you've made a mistake or two, how many times did you blame someone to take the pressure off of you? Maybe you trusted somebody and took them at their word, only to be betrayed when acts of mistrust occurred. It happens to everyone you're no different from the rest, life will never be perfect choices are made some with regrets. You only have yourself to blame but in the end you'll learn, to choose your friendships wisely look at the ones that worked hard to earn. The gift of your heart you gave them when you opened yours to theirs, let go of the past and remember a true friend always cares. Blame is for the foolish a temporary escape, it cannot fix nor change mistakes in life we make.