If, I were your woman and you were my man.... I feel like I've heard this before...Oh-Yeah! It's from that. sad song ... where the man chooses his wife...over his *****. She was pleading her case... offering things--- he didn't deserve and he still went back to wiffy...leaving her standing out on the curb. Were we listening? Did, She listen to herself? Why! Would  you give your all to a man... Who belonged to someone else? I mean, We got caught-up...listening to her groove, it was soulful and ****... some of us--- even talked about ole-dude. Saying, stuff like-- he needs to stay with her... she loves him and treats him right! I guess that, We were blinded by the fact...He already had a wife. When you chose to settle for half a man or half anyone at all... What, you end-up-with is nothing but, a good reason for you to fall. Why! Give, all of yourself for half of someone else.... and not expect yourself to fall? Cause half of anyone....is really- nothing at all! If, I were your woman and you were my man! That was the sh-- back in the day... now it's just a side-chicks  anthem... for a game that, only fools play.He was such a part of her and he didn't even know-it....I believe he knew- just...didn't care enough: to show it. She was dreaming out-loud for another woman's man..Maybe, his wife could have helped her to understand: that she... was better without- him in her life.  Try, Knowing about the other woman and being his wife. { If, I Were Your Woman}