Disobedient children's doesn't profit from wisdom. Let alone from knowledge. Train a child we are told. And still many journey down the wrong road.
Altho' it states not to provoke a child. Scriptures also talks about respect for your parents. To lose sight of that means you have no respect for self.
There will be times, when that bond will be tested. Some will survive while others will be strained. We only address certain scriptures.
Colossians states this to a child's life. Obey your parents in everything that's pleasing to the lord. And for parents to not instigate them to anger.
Do teach them hospitality. Do teach them manners. For if they don't understanding truth, they represent you. And you them.
Judge you will be. By courts, associates ,family and the community. Be proud of those raised correctly. For the troublesome one will come to respect them.
We only address certain scriptures. Some we still need to be teaching them.