Some men are so focused on the act of *** ridiculously eager to get into it they forget to relish the moments beforehand and after focused on the getting more than the giving Which is where I would like to think I differ I like to watch a woman after as she lies there in her lovely silhouette glistening gently quivering breathing heavily eyes closed as if in some strange *** coma or spell Sometimes a job well done is in the confirmation and reward in itself Or maybe it just makes me feel I can look beyond myself.