Have you ever looked at something for so long that after a while you start to see every flaw and mistake there is in it A young teen girl looked at herself in the mirror too long while doing her hair in the morning and after a while of looking at herself all the girl could see was a red, puffy eyed, tear stained face looking right back at her.
People seem to worryΒ Β about if they have big thighs, too toothy of a smile, or messy, wild hair that is impossible to tame. Others may think that if they have glasses or braces it classifies them as nerds or geek, which makes them feel, unloved, unappreciated and even more self conscious about themselves and everything they do. People try to change themselves so they be what others want them to be, so that they fit in with the right social circle, by doing this they turn into plastic, like barbie doll, they do what the leader says and feel that they can never speak up for what they feel.
People are just taking others insecurities and using them as a tool to shape their own perfect friends, or what they think a perfect friend is, but they think it is the outside that counts, but its not its the inside, yeah everyone might not like the same stuff, or go for the same team, and fight every now and then, but someone you can rely on is someone that doesn't care if you have a thigh gap, big teeth, crazy hair or what size you are, if you have a pimple or pimples. A true friend finds beauty within you not just on the outside but the inside.