I dare you to close your legs, button up your shirt, fasten your bra, put a locker on that zip and see if they will stay, the parting of your legs should not be the only conversation you are meant to have, collecting your bra straps or looking for lost earrings on the floor should not be the only time they bend over for you, as if the only time you deserve worship is only after you have screamed home coming in their ears. The dimples on your thighs and the fabric of your hair should not be the only time they learn to pronounce your name, there is more to remember of you than the scars you left on their backs, that is not the only time you know how to hold on tight, you have held graves on your wrinkled forehead from the day blood came gushing, unarmed for from your womanhood, a tragedy from which you are yet to recover, you have held far more important things, far more important secrets, far more important names than the birthmarks under their arms, there is more profundity and wisdom to your being, your family name, than the disentanglement of your lower lips and the ruin of your own flesh. There is more to you than the wetness of your womanhood and your hardened *******.