The way it tunnels into you, allows your soul to grow. Never expect to outgrow loneliness. Never hope to find people who will understand you, someone to fill that space.
An intelligent, sensitive person is the exception. The very great exception. If you expect to find people who will understand you, you will grow murderous with disappointment. The best you'll ever do, is to understand yourself, know what it is that you want, and not let the cattle stand in your way.