My number one list.
The things I have to do.
(Survival depends)
Breathe, Eat, Sleep. etc

My number two list.
The things I need to do.
(To maintain number one list)
Work, Cook, Clean. etc

My number three list.
The things I would like to do.
(Possible not probable, if any money left from list two having satisfied list one).
Visit Vietnam, Hold an anonymous party, Do good things.

My number four list.
(Improbable yet much desirable, things be it material or of fantasy that make the other lists bearable)
Have a goth ****** and make love to me.

OK its a short list. Is yours?